I’m a 60-year-old man with no friends and no …

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    I am 57 no children and retired after 37 years of factory work. I am lucky there BUT I worry that as I age I will have no friends and no one to look out for me when I get real old!

    The problem is I just don’t care I don’t want to bother making friends I enjoy being by myself I don’t like stress I don’t like aggravation and I don’t like problems and I have none of that, but I have no friends. I don’t want a date I don’t want to go anywhere I really enjoy being home specially after working 35 years and traveling all over the place it’s nice to take it easy

    right now I’m healthy but what’s going to happen in 15 years when I’m approaching 80 it’s kind of a scary,

    I’m kind of stuck I don’t know what to do, but I do worry what’s going to happen in 15-20 years if nothing changes

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    Hugs to you. I don’t know how to help. But, maybe you can have comfort in knowing that you’re not alone with this fear. This is a three year old post so I’m not even sure if your situation is the same. But, I’m 59 and I can relate. I’m married to a man who is 67. I’ve been disabled my entire adult life. I’ve never lived on my own. When I was 24, I moved out of my father’s house and moved into my husband’s house. I literally don’t know how to be alone. Now, I realize that, statistically, I will outlive my husband and I’m scared. I don’t want to be a burden to my daughter. She has her own life. My best friend who is also my only “real” friend is dying of cancer as I write this. I’m just majorly freaked out because if my husband dies before me, which is likely, I won’t have any peers. Apparently, I’m not “alone” in this situation. I guess a lot of older people fear being alone. I had no idea. I mean, I didn’t think about this until recently…that I might be alone when I get old. It is scary indeed. And, the money thing is always lurking. My husband and I are fine now. But, I never worked so I have no pension of my own. When, he dies, my income will be cut from $5200 per month to $2000 per month. Luckily, we own our home out right and we have zero debts. But, if I have to go into assisted living at some point, 2 grand won’t be enough to pay for it. I can rent out my house. But, I’m not sure that the rental income will be enough either. Assisted living is very expensive. And, I don’t want to be a burden to my daughter. I would rather die… literally. It’s hard to be old in the US. You live. You contribute. You pay taxes. And, at the end, you have zero assurance that you’ll be okay. Sad.

    If you don’t have family you can’t do anything about it since we can’t choose our family. I’m a 21 year old man without much friends to go out with but I still go out on my own even if I have to use a wheelchair so maybe you could do like I do to make new friends. If you want to make money try to do something from home like buying things on Ebay and sell them for more cash or write a book, that way you would have a hobby & have your own business.

    Hope I helped you 🙂

    Update: Now I’m 28 years old & I made some friends to hang out with, Hope your life has turned out to be better, if not just keep strong & don’t ever give up!

    This is a 3 year old post, and I don’t know if you’ll ever receive this. If you do, I’d like to help. Please send me a private message on this site and tell me how I can contact you.

    Yours was a clear and horribly painful cry for help and yet no one offered meaningful assistance, even contact. It revolts me that a Quora algorithm didn’t catch this for some kind of intervention. Spare me the “that’s not our function” comment…it’s everyone’s responsibility to reach out when pain is put in our path.


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    I’m a woman in the same boat. I do have two cats and they certainly help to brighten my day with their antics and companionship. ❤️

    My plan is to take Social Security at 62. I am going to buy a small trailer and a vehicle to tow it with and I am heading out west to live as inexpensively as I can manage. There are groups of people in our age group who are doing just this, full time. Look up Bob Wells RV living on YouTube. Bob kind of fell into being the guru of RV living, his tips are invaluable. Plus, he’s a super nice guy and will answer your question directly.

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    I was originally planning on packing up and moving to central Mexico because of the cheap COL and I may still end up there. The current exchange is 21 pesos to ONE American dollar! The expat lifestyle appeals to me as well, I think we need to get out of our comfort zones and live an interesting life instead of rotting away on our couches with our clickers in our hands. YouTube has tons of expats living in Mexico, too.

    Check some of these options out, you may find yourself on a completely different path in this life.

    One of the best ways to get love is to give love, and a great way to end loneliness is to reach out to others who are lonely and in need.

    • Foster a couple of kids. (Honestly, I don’t know the requirements, age limits, etc., but if you qualify, there are many children in need).
    • Mentor in a community that needs you.
    • Start a social group for men your age where you get together once a week to play cards, shoot pool, or do something else you want to.
    • Look around your neighborhood for a single parent, or older adult or someone who needs you and give them a hand. Loneliness is at epidemic levels with something like 1 in 3 experiencing it. Because no one wants to be rejected or to seem pathetic, people remain lonely out of embarrassment. At least 1 in 3 people within a mile of you could use your support or friendship. Start paying attention to who needs you and show up for them in non-creepy ways.
    • Volunteer at a hospital or somewhere where there is a need.
    • Look for one of those community or cohousing living situations.
    • If it’s an option, leave the US for a country that treats its elderly kinder.

    Through one of these options, you may find someone who would welcome you into their life. People are forming all sorts of families these days. The modern family is a group of people (or even one person) you bond with who shows up for you. Also, you don’t mention intimacy and finding a life partner. I wouldn’t give up on that! The number of people who want that type of connection is also high. Don’t rule it out 🙂

    As for money, you’re still fairly young. You could be retrained in a profession that isn’t ageist. Buy insurance to cover final expenses to check that off your worry list.

    I hope you get some good advice here and 2019 is the year you change your situation.

    1. Hi. I found this while typing in a depressed thought much like your post title. I read a few replies. I have come back to tell you i empathize. There is no money after essentials here, but i would be glad to correspond if it would help. I hope you are better now… happier. ☮️


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    Yes. I feel the same way. Am I going to outlive my savings? I had to stop working last year at 69 because I was on my feet for 9 hours. But mentally I felt connected to society. Now I feel bad because I am not living the life I want to live. A job gave my life meaning. Now I just don’t know what to do with myself. Feeling weak and tired all the time. I have to force myself to do stuff that I might have done last year without thinking. Can go for a month or two without bathing.


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    Sir, cheer up. We know of old people being bothered and tortured by family. So, at least you’re free. Please try and join one of the homes for the aged. You won’t be alone, and you’ll find some purpose there. Love.


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    Rob a federally chartered bank.

    Take the cash and spend it. Then rob another and another until you get caught.

    Plead guilty. They’ll send you to a nice “Club Fed” prison where life is easy.

    Being a bank robber, and old, you’ll be at the top of the hierarchy; the only one higher is a cop-killer. You’ll also be respected for the wisdom you can impart. In fact, you might turn out to be someone’s mentor.

    You’ll get fed, have a warm dry place to sleep and get life-time medical care.

    Beats living in a cardboard box under a bridge and eating scraps from a grocery store’s dumpster.



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